Trust In Love

Becoming Confident And More At Ease With Each Other Over Time

 

When you have just begun a relationship it can seem hard to get comfortable around each other. For many people, who are looking for love,  it is hard to let someone see your inner fears and to see you as you really are. When you get ready for a date and when you hang out with your significant other you often put in more effort than you would normally expend on your appearance and your actions. This means that it can be scary to come away from that and show them who you really are.

Shy Woman In Love

 

The biggest reason that you are scared is the fear of deception and the feeling that you are acting as another person when you undertake these actions. This is often the reason that you feel like you need to ‘come out’ to them as your real self, the desire for them to know the real you. However, there is a hovering fear of rejection that stays near the surface and can thwart your attempts at each turn. This problem is made worse when both people in the relationship are experiencing and same feelings and end up pushing each other away instead of working together for a shared goal.

 

Thankfully most people will not be rejected when they show their true selves and it generally helps to deepen any given relationship and truly draw a couple together. This is because honesty and communication in a relationship are the two things that make people stick together and ensure that a relationship is going to work in the long term. Showing your fear, your heart and your true self to the person you love just allows them to love more of you and to know you on a deeper level. Choosing to reveal this part of yourself, truly helps to progress your relationship along.

 

Over time, once you have gotten rid of the ‘fake persona’, you will find that you and your partner will naturally become confident and more at ease with each. This closeness can help you build a relationship that will last a lifetime and ensure that you are able to last through any storms that could damage your relationship. Choosing to put yourself on the line is the first step to the relationship of your dreams, and commitment and trust that you truly crave.